In a shallow dish, combine the coconut aminos, chili paste, ginger, honey, sesame oil, garlic, and salt. Mix well. Add the steak and turn to coat. Marinate 20 minutes.
Meanwhile, heat your grill or a grill pan to high heat; cook for 5-7 minutes on each side, as desired. Remove from the grill and let rest 10 minutes. Sprinkle with sesame seeds and slice thinly across the grain.
Divide the cooked rice between 4 bowls. Top with steak, carrot and cucumber slices, kimchi, scallions, and jalapeno slices. Serve with chili paste, if desired.